Failure is often attributed to the downside. A lot of people who don't want to fail and the very avoidance of failure. On the other hand, everyone craves for success and hope something goes smoothly and to avoid such thing as failure. However, we have to ask why the failure happen? What causes someone to fail?
Among the several books that I have read concerning the book starting from the motivation, psychology, strength of mind, and a couple of videos from the expert's psychology and successful people as well as podcasts from the American speakers, I can conclude that the cause of the failures come from one source. NEGATIVE THINKING!
When someone set a goal or target then what he had hoped for didn't happen then it will appear a sense of dismay. A feeling of disappointment this triggers the brain to think negative (NEGATIVE thinking).
If someone cannot accept that his expectations aren't running as desired, then the brain would transmit a reaction of rejection, and the body will react. what we are doing is no longer due to the motion of the award (conscious) but rather the reaction of the subconscious mind (the subconscious mind).
So when someone is experiencing failures and is not able to accept the fact he was going to do something opposite of his costume. If this can not control, then the next stage is depression or despair in attitude.
Different when someone found his expectations go smoothly and the target is reached then the brain will feel happy, and rejection does not occur. Mostly, the reaction to the failure and success triggers an action either positive or negative. Usually one would think negative when it failed and positive thinking when successful. Only a few people who can relate to the failure to the positive direction.
The unique thing is if we see further, individuals with a high level of success in life is a successful AKA those who experience a sequence of failures against the run, fell in the wake of his life and start a new thing with full conviction. Call it the Apple CEO Steve Job, who began his career from the garage of his home, was fired from his company, to experience severe depression. But got up and greets success. Why did this happen? The answer is one, POSITIVE THINKING!.
People who are capable of positive thinking will always manage to rise despite slumped in the circumstances though. No matter how many times they experienced failure, failure is a lesson for them is not the bottleneck. When the brain could translate into a failure message is positive then the deed would be leaning towards the right, and natural response will also be positive. There will be no such thing as a denial in myself that ended in disappointment.
A sense of frustration is a natural result of the reaction of the body will expect that are not realize. So, just reasonable people feel disappointed when it failed, but disappointment needs to be in attitude with reasonable withoutdissolve in remorse. Therefore it is necessary to train yourself for once thinks failure is a learning process, not the end of everything.
Negative thinking is the source of all problems in life. We cannot change what is happy. What we have to do is to accept things for what they are without hope. With the attitude of taking them, we will point your mind toward the positive and able to act without the rash. Any success, in fact, can only lead to negative direction if one cannot control the extreme pleasure.
By accepting the US, will be more peaceful and rejection in the body will not happen. From the health side, negative thinking will spur diseases are bad for the body. Books about THE power of the mind, soul healing, positive thinking, both written by the author of the West and Indonesia have the same points. That 80% of disease in the body of the driver resulted from the adverse reaction of the mind which makes immune does not work. or not, confident or not, healing through the mind can work faster than therapeutic tools as advanced as any in the world. This is recognized by the medical health research literature through the years.
The people in life are always positive thinking experience disease and please observe in person in your neighborhood. They will also be easier to succeed not because they have a high IQ but because positive thoughts made them keep trying without giving up. At the moment we are disappointed would be a failure and we see failure as a response on the said surrender. If the negative sides dominate the thoughts, don't expect success will say hello.
In the science of psychology of Carol Dweck, experts contend, the mindset of the people who think belongs to the fixed mindset. They are always looking at something permanently if it fails it is the fate of, or the inability to do something because it does not feel able or born like that.
While the second is the growth mindset or the people that think that that ability can change and can always grow. So, there is no term smart or stupid. But want to learn or not, diligent or not. This became the key to success.
We are not born to be smart, we learn to be smart. Failure is a process, not an ending. Our action is the result of our thought, the more positive we think, the better action we may take. YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK.
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