The Fine Art Of Thanks

Often I convey commented that 1 of the most pleasant things inward life is serendipity.  I similar the word, serendipity, as well as I similar the experience of it.  Serendipity is a pleasant surprise, an unexpected slice of skilful fortune.  Serendipity is skilful fortune finding us when nosotros were non fifty-fifty looking. 

Recently I had the skilful fortune of beingness the recipient of a niggling serendipity.  It was non a big deal, but it was touching, nevertheless.  I received an electronic mail from a pupil whom I know, but I don’t know this pupil well.  He is a leader on campus, as well as thence I figured perchance he wanted something.  So I opened the electronic mail amongst no expectations at all that it would truly move serendipity inward the making.

The electronic mail began amongst a cordial greeting.  I appreciated that, but was non surprised.  This pupil is mortal who has his human activity together, as well as thence he knows how to engage people.  I read on.  He told me that he was involved amongst a grouping of students who were interviewing other students virtually approximately matters.  One of the students who were interviewed singled me out as well as publically thanked me for approximately things.

This slice of serendipity was touching for iii reasons.  In the source place, it touched me that I received the electronic mail sharing this tidbit of news.  Otherwise, I would never convey known virtually this.  It is non a big thing.  The globe would hold spinning, fifty-fifty if I never knew virtually it. 
Secondly, I was touched that mortal noticed something I manifestly said or did.  I create non know the hollo of the pupil who was interviewed as well as said the form things virtually me.  And inward almost every way, I am glad I don’t know who it was.  I am glad, because that trend I am non tempted to rationalize why he or she felt this trend as well as why he or she would convey said it.  This trend the whole thing feels clean.  Apparently I did something that was noticed and, perhaps, made a niggling difference.  Many of us create this all the time.

Finally, I was touched that the pupil who was interviewed was thankful as well as said “thanks.”  I appreciate the sentiment, although clearly I was never going to know virtually it, until the electronic mail came.  The electronic mail was a form of gift, inward that it enabled me to know something special.  Serendipity came my trend as well as made my day.

I am delighted that a pupil knows the value of beingness thankful.  Ultimately, I believe at that spot is something spiritual inward whatever run into where a gift is given as well as thank yous is the response.  I sense the civilization nosotros alive inward does non create this also well.  This is non the house to create a cultural analysis.  I am to a greater extent than interested inward what I similar to telephone telephone “the fine art of thanks.”

I create recall offering thank yous is an art.  It is non a science, which has strict lessons as well as protocol on offering thanks.  Saying thank yous is determined yesteryear the 1 offering the thanks.  Thanks ever come upwards out of recognition as well as response.  Let’s aspect briefly at each 1 of these.

We cannot move thankful if nosotros create non recognize that inward approximately way---either especially or inward a full general sense---we convey been gifted.  To recognize that nosotros convey been gifted requires a degree of awareness that enables us to recognize it when true.  Perhaps also many people Pb unthankful lives because they lack the awareness that enables them to recognize how they are gifted.

But to recognize nosotros convey been gifted does non hateful nosotros necessarily volition respond.  That requires truly beingness thankful---saying thank yous inward approximately fashion.  This manifestly is what 1 pupil did when he or she mentioned me.  It was serendipitous that I was able to know virtually it.  I was touched as well as thankful!

The spiritual lesson for me inward all this is to hold practicing the fine art of thanks.  If I am honest, I know that I convey been copiously gifted.  My life is a gift.  Thanks!  Whenever I am tempted to recall that I am a self-made man, I should recognize that but is non true.  I convey been gifted amongst talent, amongst opportunity, amongst mentors, etc.  That does non discount the function nosotros create to brand something out of ourselves.  But I don’t desire to move as well as thence delusional to recall I did it all myself.

For me, the fine art of thank yous recognizes the creative Spirit behind as well as inward everything inward life.  The fine art of thank yous recognizes many others who convey played a business office inward my life as well as those who are playing a role.  I desire to answer to all of them yesteryear practicing the fine art of thanks. 

Spiritually speaking, practicing the fine art of thank yous closes the loop to the human activity of gift.  Gift as well as thank yous are the twin pillars of the divine-human encounter.  And if it truthful of that encounter, gift as well as thank yous are also the pillars of meaningful human-human encounter.  Saying thank yous as well as beingness thankful is an art.  Practice it.  Become artists of the Spirit. 
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