I am fond of a television show from one of the private television station that presents an extraordinary talent quest event for children. How very packed, each child with confidence and without shame created advanced to be seen hundreds of audience members to showcase their talent. There is one girl caught my attention, age around five years with confidence answer questions from the judges. In my heart thought so, how can a child as small as he seemed to have no sense of nervousness at all, if not his age I used to have such great courage like himself.
I know of every child is different, they could not use Generalized because they were born with their talent. However, all children can be taught to believe me it may not be easy, less if only parents know how to teach it to them. Taste of less is one of the biggest enemies of a person, and the feeling can be brought up to someone grows up so that the future can influence in private life and their social life.
Then how do I teach a child to have confidence that right? Here are six ways I auto summary from various sources how to teach your child to have good faith, among them are:
1. don't scare
Sometimes your child to make the deterrent or you want your child not to do something you didn't expect, the most efficient way to use is to frighten. However, did you ever consider the long-term effects? The Customs scare, in the long run, can make someone become the pessimists, it can be embedded in the mind of someone so that new influence appears when someone will decide. We encourage you to let you know the real reason it is forbidden for him to do, in this way the child has obvious reasons not to do so.
2. do not scold without cause are clear
The challenge as parents is substantial, and sometimes it affects your emotions. I remember when it was a small one time my parents scold me a beating without a clear reason as I cannot defend himself and prefers to keep silence in the room. You may be angry, but the anger You must have reasons; thus the child will know His fault and expected not to repeat the same mistakes.
3. don't mock
Although to joke habit of taunting is not justifiable. A child does not yet have a good understanding in communicating with others when he makes a mistake, and it's funny you think should you avoid to be ridiculed. In the perspective of the child fault he has done though it was funny is a very shameful thing, should you keep giving him the spirit and teach him not to make the same mistakes?
4. Involving right in decide
In certain matters involving children in making their own decisions is worth You are trying to do. Like what to wear in the event of the separation of the school or what to gift he gave to his friend. Accustom children to make their decisions will train her to believe the decision he took was correct and it should be your support.
5. don't spoil the child
Well for mothers, in particular, I noticed that you carried for nine months. No matter how big your taste to the fruit of your heart's habit of pampering him should be avoided wherever possible, instead of you didn't sweetheart but did you also consider his future if you were often pampering him. A child who was often pampered will depend on his parents, and it will carry over until she was an adult. From this moment your child practices their daily tasks to work on and praise him for what he has done, the proven way in evoking the confidence of a child.
6. active communication
As busy as anything you as a parent who cares about the development of the fruit of his heart you should often take the time to converse with them. Light topics surrounding the school, her friends or news-up-to-the-minute news can be your chat material. Ask them to comment on an issue and ask for their opinion, and the incident will bring your children to think in addressing everything.
As a parent is an extraordinary task as a craftsman pottery. Parents have a "clay" in his hand which he forms as it wants. Your child anyway, they like the clay in your hands. Those shape up as good as you want and "shall burn" them so it can be a form that could be useful for you, themselves and others.
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