Without love, live wedding days will be difficult. However, the love you have marriage does not guarantee happiness. You can fall in love repeatedly with your partner. However, remember, the love of a person before and after getting married is not the same. Some are even reduced levels of love after marriage. This is because each pair will undergo changes in the roles and responsibilities are considered in addition to uniting in love like a courtship.
Conflicts and disputes will occur gradually erode the love that exists. If you do not have a lock and handle in addition to love, the possibility when problems come up to your marriage relationship, you will easily fall. Here are the things you can do to maintain a happy marriage that, in addition to the provision of the love that you can give to our partner:
Always assign a shared commitment as a key to your wedding
When quarrels come, remember this important commitment, where you and your partner together promise to be faithful in difficult circumstances and happy.
Undertake the responsibility of each
Before marriage, the husband does not have the responsibility of being the breadwinner, and the wife was not responsible for the affairs of the household. Well, when entered into the world of marriage, each party will be burdened with the roles and responsibilities that must be executed properly. When husband and wife successfully completed any responsibilities, family welfare will be fulfilled.
Appearance is important to note
Most couples after marriage and having children, they feel no need to keep up appearances. The statement was wrong. Give the best performance and maintain ideal body shape it will increase your confidence and sense of such couples before marriage.
Do not try to change a couple
Flaws and bad habits couples will be more visible as time goes by marriage. Even you never thought you could be such a partner. When the shortage was an issue for you, do you ever think why I could love anyone like this, huh? Your regret is of no use. Rather than focus on shifting flaws and bad habits, better focus on its advantages.
Communicate with appropriate language
Try to talk to your partner by either using the right language. Your attitude, it will make a couple more respect you. Although your partner really loves you, but if you speak harshly, snapped, then over time your partner so saturated as well.
Try to yield if the fight comes
It would be very difficult to budge during a quarrel. You and your partner may be feeling the same emotions. Therefore, what happens, you are both trying to justify himself. Succumbing not mean you are wrong and lose. Succumbing is a short way to end the bickering continued. When the quarrel came, love seemed lost.
When couples make mistakes, admonish with love
Nobody is perfect. So, if couples make the mistake that makes your heart crushed and disappointed, do not rush cornered him with harsh words. Mistakes cannot go unpunished, but you must permanent admonished him with love so that he can realize his mistake and promised not to repeat it again.
Openness in all respects
a love that is based on dishonesty will not last long. Dishonesty like illness in marriage, which over time will eat away at your happiness. Try to be open in all matters relating to domestic relations, like open in a matter of feelings, finance, employment, and social relationships.
A healthy sex life
In marriage, sex is a necessity. In a healthy sex, biological needs are met and mutually satisfactory, will increase the warmth of your relationship.
Mutual maintain social relationships
Maintain mutual relationship with the families of both parties is factors supporting your marriage relationship. Maintain familiarity with other families in addition to the nuclear family in your household you need to improve as well. Because sometimes in difficult times, you will need encouragement and help from family.
Decision-making shared
Maintain a good relationship with your partner's family is the supporting factor of your marriage relationship. You need to maintain and increase familiarity with other families in addition to the nuclear family in your household. Because sometimes in difficult times, you will need encouragement and help from family.
Okay, apparently in building a marriage that cannot only rely on love alone. Many other factors that we must do to our marriage happy.
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