Maybe today you are more confused about how jilt someone who has expressed her love for all this to you, but you do not like it at all. Would immediately reject but was afraid he hurt.
You need to know that everyone must feel the pain when love denied. However, if the rejection was done well and politely, then he will be able to receive those circumstances, despite the hurt is still there.
Then how do I refuse, love with subtle though he does not feel hurt?
The first tell you proudly that he had love or falling in love with you. Then say frankly that for the moment you cannot love him, or let us say if you already have a spouse or lover. In addition, the relationship as friends or companions can continue.
Tell him that this time you are not ready for a relationship of love. The reason you want happy parents or any other reason that makes sense, for example, they want to own, wants the focus to college or want to establish a career.
You can tell by a gesture, for example, did not return phone calls, or chat. In addition, always shy away when he tried to invite walking together or meet.
Alternatively, you can also use the ways jilt politely as below:
Request time
Refusing direct when he reveals his love would make him hurt. He would think he had been rebuffed. Therefore, even if you do not like, ask for time to think, at least 3 to 7 days.
Do not let him wait too long because it will be a more painful heart. In addition, with this trick, your refusal will not look extreme.
Tell Direct
Direct say it will feel better than deputy rejection through friends, phone, let alone chat. It will only make him feel humiliated. Therefore, as much as possible say that rejection directly from your lips.
Likewise, when the express rejection surely does not install but install an expression as if you did not want to reject his love. Repel with smooth words. Do not scold or to insult.
Sweet Reason
There are a million reasons even more, but finding the right one reason that it is not easy. While there is no way, to be honest, then what? This way, you say what they are. Just say it honestly if you are not in love with him.
After Rejection
Be as usual. Keep smiling and say hello. Then you do after rejecting it being cold to her.
Anyway, you are a human being who has feelings and you ought to keep her feelings. Denied was already quite ill, do not add to the burden him again with a bitter attitude.
Those are some tips on How to Refuse Must Love Without Hurt Feelings who you might practice. May be useful.
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