When we fail, we feel a negative emotion. Can be feeling frustrated, sad, upset, angry, fearful, traumatic, and even despair. The flavors are crippling themselves. Motivate yourself falling to a base so it is hard to bounce back. The feeling was terrible.
if the words are not motivating. continue to try to improve itself. ask for opinions and advice to friends or family. do not let your failures now become the cause of further failures.
It may be that we ourselves are trying to motivate myself with words, affirmations, and every article of the theory to deal with failure. However, words from anywhere and by anyone, no one will be able to make sense of failure is lost.
Then, how the right way to overcome the failure and make himself re-motivated? Here is how to motivate yourself when it failed:
Receive any feeling that we feel when failed
Any feeling that we feel when experiencing failure, do not try to be avoided, denied, or repressed. Thanks and feel. Imagine with a variety of perspectives, including from a third person perspective. Then visualize the imagination that is strange or funny. The feeling is his nature to be felt, and will surely fade. Like a bitter pill to swallow, bitterness will disappear over time. Everything should be passed.
Words are not going to help, then immediately to do
Do not just know how to speak, do something, act, and move. Failure to provide the void for the purposes to be achieved is not recoverable. Give yourself a new goal; make brain and muscles remain constantly active. Do the one thing that could be done as soon as possible. Create useful busy. Start with one small thing if the other is difficult, for example, clean up and dispose of waste, help others, and so forth.
If you still are not motivated, it's okay; it naturally
All the negative emotions that come because of the failure are the feeling that we can feel no need to follow up impulsively. Distinguish fine line between feelings and actions. Egg we may feel anger, and indeed we could not resist the emotion that occurs in the liver. However, we should be able to control ourselves to not do anything negative consequences. Despite failing and feels uncomfortable, we can act positively. Do not react, but in action; be proactive. Initiatives based on the principle of the right are not based on mere feelings.
Although it has failed to realize that failure is only temporary
Remember that there are many other things in life that do not fail. Thankful and make a list of things that are still fine. Rate yourself fairly; do not punish yourself by looking at the objective state of being as a whole. Sometimes our views are too narrow to look more broadly. Look far ahead like the Lord, there are many other blessings, and failure is just one small plan in the big picture of the destiny of our lives.
Take a lesson from the failure
Remember that failure is the experience that can be the best teacher in life. Learn failure as stairs to success. Ponder errors that exist to not happen again and teach others to avoid failure as experienced. In the end, we will remember not how many failures. However, success was so beautiful, so sweet; because we never swallow the bitter pill of failure. That is the nature of life.
To achieve a success was not easy. A lot of you must walk including a failure. Do not let failures make you a coward and run away from life. Be people who dare to face reality and immediately rose. Make failures as experiences and lessons learned. Make failure as a springboard to success.
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