All people in this world must have experienced the most vulnerable moment in his life. Either he is rich, poor, young, old, all must have experienced it. Ranging from a breakup, family problems, work problems, let down your friends, ostracized, and so forth. I did the writing of this article, has also been feel what is called despair. I also never felt the fragility of myself when faced with a problem that is very complex.
Perhaps from this article cannot change anything to your life, but it does not hurt me to share my way to solve the problem after problem that comes although sometimes because so many issues that come up, there are one or two problems that I cannot solve and I must surrender us to God. Well, here is a way to motivate yourself to get up:
Seeing Move Down
Imagine the surrounding people that life is much more difficult than your life. Many people around you live to your standards. Their life is full of hardship, even to eat them too hard. However, they can still live in peace. Why we cannot see it and learn from it.
Gather with Friends
Gather with friends to entertain, the laugh can ease the burden on your brain. In addition, there might just be a friend who can help all the problems we are facing. Realize that there are other people around us who genuinely help us and make us happy.
Never Alone
Look for the crowd because it alone instead will add to your load. Alone will not make you be able to solve the problem. Alone will make you more stress.
Search for New Pleasure
Doing things, you have never done / fear / forbidden to do during this time, but do not do illegal things just for pleasure themselves. Usually, with the way, people make you disappointed to be aware of.
Think that others will miss you
Do not think that there are no longer people who love or wish you did not exist. That is wrong. Repent and build it. There are still humans dear to you. There are still humans who care about you. In addition, do not ever love and not waste their concerns.
Remove Objects That Make You Grieving
For example, you have a favorite item to be given to someone special. What you want to continue to cry when you remember the giver disappointing when you see it? Immediately throw away the object. Never store it again because it would only add insult to injury.
Read the word Motivation
Frequently you read the word motivation because few will lighten your load.
Telling stories to friends/family
Tell all the grievances and the burden of your life to the person who really can trust and accept your laments. Because the storytelling can reduce a lot of burdens. With told me, who know they can help you out of all the problems you are facing.
Leave the Less Important Activities to Do While
Reduce activities that you normally do, but it is less important to do. Believe it was, many activities that drain your mind and your mind could make the burden heavier.
Positive Thinking Above All Happened
This is the most difficult thing to do when someone experiences adversity in his life. Think again all meaning in your life, think that what happened was a warning, think that it's going to change you become stronger, think that happened it was a lesson not to happen again in the future.
That was some way to motivate yourself, for those of you who feel less worthy of this article, I am sorry but this is my own way to motivate yourself.
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